Interviewed in a series by Talyaa Liera 2011
Say I’m a go-with-the-flow kind of person. I don’t want to work that hard, and I want to have a good life that’s easy. Your approach sounds like work. How can I make it work for me?
You may not be able to. You want to make a change? You’re going to have to go out of your comfort zones, and that is NOT easy. THAT takes work! What I hear in your question is resistance to effort. Perhaps if you knew your effort would work, then it would be ok?
A go-with-the-flow attitude often is really a resistance to LIFE ITSELF, along with a lack of owning the resistance. A true and healthy go-with-the-flow is about claiming our truths.
Furthermore, there are plenty of woo-woo people and helping professionals that say they can help you change without you having to do any work or just a little. However, without the effort required to go out of one’s comfort zones, you only get limited short-term results that rarely last.
There is effort required to face what you have been resisting, and again, THAT is uncomfortable. The effort is in overcoming your habits or running away when there is discomfort. The work is in staying in the discomfort.
My recommendation is to examine your resistance to making choices, and being accountable to stick to the choices you made even when you are uncomfortable sticking to those choices.
I can show you how to make changes quickly, effectively with long lasting and meaningful results through PC, but you must be willing to be uncomfortable. The go-with-the-flow attitude that most people refer to is staying comfortable.
Consider how this go-with-the-flow attitude has worked out for you?
Also consider what might be worth being uncomfortable — a possible experience of rapture, awe, the mystical and divine you could experience when you stop resisting and allow yourself to be uncomfortable?
What most people mean when they say go with the flow is they don’t want to change, they don’t want conflict, they don’t want to effort — they just want to go for a ride and have everything work out.
Fundamentally, this go-with-the-flow-attitude is screwing over our planet, because it is one of the most insidious ways to abdicate one’s power of creation. It is an against life state of thinking. Now you can understand why I am so repelled by this.
Bottom line — go-with-the-flow is really a “F… YOU, I don’t want to be uncomfortable, and I don’t want to own that I don’t want to face my discomfort, because I always want to be comfortable!
Wait. One more thing. If someone was in healthy flow, dying in each moment and accepting their magnificent essence, they would be deeply aware of their desires to make themselves and the world a better place, and their life purpose.
And they’d work their ass off living their purpose and passion. The go-with-the-flow people deny their purpose, passion and their magnificent essence, all because they want to be comfortable.
I was surprised by the level of intensity that this last question evoked. What’s that about?
Why I am so passionate is that I want to expose this great hypocrisy of the go-with-the-flow, often found in the ‘woo woo’ crowd.
I see so many people that sleepwalk, as if they are shells of humans. This go-with-the-flow attitude is so destructive to waking up and living fully that they are plugged in to the Matrix, unaware of the Truth of who they are — someone who can shape and guide civilizations.
“I’ll just let everything work out” – this attitude is the antithesis of what I believe I am here for, which is to lead individuals to own the truth of who they are and what they came here to do.
One enemy of life on this planet is this go-with-the flow attitude, filled with apathy, resignation and despair, an ever-present underlying state in much of humanity. The go-with-the-flow attitude perpetuates a shell of existence.