Paradox Cure
Overview Of Paradox Cure
Overview
The Paradox Cure (PC) is an approach to heal, grow and transform that uses an evolving set of tools and skill sets that guides individuals to align with the innate wisdom and power of their body, psyche and soul.
It aligns with what underlies all healing, growth, and transformation — ACCEPTANCE.
Paradox Cure actively works with how we resist and sabotage our own change, and supports us to shift how we make changes that are closely aligned with our true wants, needs, body, hearts, and psyche.
Paradox Cure unlocks effectiveness to heal, grow and transform unlike any I have yet witnessed elsewhere.
The Paradox Cure Approach Offers
- UNSTUCK — Get unstuck in any area of life.
- MORE EFFECTIVE CHANGE — Make personal changes more quickly, effectively, with longer lasting and meaningful results.
- BETTER KNOW YOUR OWN NEEDS — Learn how to better listen to your body and what it wants and needs to heal, grow, evolve — empowering you to have a direction to act for your own healing path.
- INNER COMPASS TO GUIDE US — Come to know and be able to use our innate inner compass, where can know what is true for ourselves independent of others, and not be fooled by our thinking. Our head tricks us and lies to us, and we rarely know when it does that. But our body always tells us our truth.
- UNDERSTAND HOW YOU SABOTAGE YOUR OWN CHANGES — we have become our own experts at resisting change, even the changes we want. This resistance sabotages our efforts to make important changes within ourselves (internal) and in our lives (external).
- GET MORE EFFECTIVENESS OUT OF ANY MODALITY, APPROACH — learn how to be more effective using any modality of healing, growth and transformation — whether you are a practitioner or a client/participant.
After 20 years intent on uncovering what guides all healing, growth and transformation, I discovered it was ACCEPTANCE. Though simple to understand, how we resist is full of nuance, pitfalls, misdirection and challenges.
However, once you understood how you resist change within yourself, and learn how to better accept yourself, how you make personal changes in how you think, act and speak becomes far easier and accessible.
I offer various individual and group trainings, as well as courses into this large body of knowledge and skill sets.
The Paradox Cure Deals With Many Issues
The Paradox Cure easily addresses a range of issues. When you stop resisting, you are able to change anything way more quickly, effectively, and with longer lasting and meaningful results. The Paradox Cure can address even stubborn and intractable issues when the individual is willing to stay in their discomfort.
- Where you are stuck in life
- Why you might be stuck & how to get unstuck
- How to deal with acute & chronic pain, decrease pain & increase pleasure
- Trauma – what it is, why it exists & how to deal with it
- What is behind most dis-ease
- Why emotional issues don’t resolve & how to resolve them quickly and effectively with long lasting results
- How to reclaim healthy function, vitality & wellness
- Why personal growth, healing and transformation is effective or ineffective
- How to accelerate the effectiveness of any personal growth, healing or transformation modality & approach
- How you get blocked from your power & feel helpless (often shows up as depression)
- What creates behaviors that stay on auto-pilot & how to interrupt those behaviors to create new ones that work
- What is behind most addictions & how to better deal with them
- Why you might not be getting what you want & how to get it
- Spiritual issues — crisis, angst
- Conscious evolution issues
- How to reclaim your personal POWER & HEALTH
- Societal and political issues
- Crime fighting issues
- Religious conflict — all parties must be willing to connect with their body and be authentic with themselves. This is rare, as I have witnessed too many people refuse to examine their beliefs and deeper truths if they even get an inkling that their beliefs might not be true.
Testimonials for Paradox Cure
Paradox Cure is one of those I-don’t-believe-it-even-though-I-just-went-through-it sort of things that are so stealthily yet profoundly powerful that I am not sure I can do justice in explaining my experience.
My life has changed immeasurably because of the Paradox Cure sessions I’ve been fortunate enough to receive. I have reclaimed aspects of myself I hadn’t known I had pushed away. I have become more confident, more powerful, and overall more joyful as a result. I have learned things about myself that I had buried so deeply that I doubt would have surfaced even after years of traditional talk therapy.
Paradox Cure is deceivingly simple. That may be why it’s so effective, because from my perspective while in a Paradox Cure session, I’m mostly just lying down and breathing while answering questions about what I feel in my body. But do not be deceived. This has been life changing for me.
It’s also profoundly effective in a gentle way. I was able to safely and comfortably explore ugly aspects of my past (being raped, molested, or abused) as well as ugly beliefs about myself (feeling worthless, small, unlovable) without having to re-experience my trauma. I had no idea it was possible to gently move through my troubling and difficult issues.
I’ve also witnessed others in Paradox Cure sessions. I am able to observe people’s energy patterns and flow, and it was easy for me to observe big differences in people after their session compared to before it. Once, in a group, I saw someone receive a huge a-ha piece of their life purpose in a 20 minute Paradox Cure mini session. This person has since gone on to begin teaching their wisdom to others, something they said they were afraid of doing prior to their mini Paradox Cure session. I can only imagine how much more powerfully they’d be serving others with more Paradox Cure!
Dave is without question a pioneer in his field of accessing greater human potential.
When I say “pioneer”, I am not so much talking about content, as much as practical application. What is both unique and extremely timely about Dave is his gutsy ability to practically apply principles we have read, heard about and longed for in our daily lives for years, and ground them firmly in the present. He is not interested in “someday” or “in the future”; he is very much focused on NOW.
In other words, his approach bridges the gap between what many of us have read and known about accessing our deepest potential in life, yet have never been able to actualize–and brings us firmly and resolutely into a vision of EXACTLY what these principles look, feel, smell, and taste like in our everyday existence.
He provides the tools to give us in a surprisingly short period of time (depending on our dedication) what we thought might take us a lifetime to achieve.
The “Paradox” Of Paradox Cure
The “PARADOX” of the Paradox Cure — Run Towards What We Run Away From
The PARADOX of The Paradox Cure is that we must run towards and accept what we fear, avoid, and don’t want anymore!
It takes RUNNING TOWARDS what you have resisted, and that means you will feel the hurt. I am not saying you need to suffer. Actually suffering is almost always resisting and not accommodating the pain of something you are avoiding.
By accepting what you resist, by feeling, exploring and moving through what you have avoided for so long, you are able to QUICKLY let go of that wound/hurt in your psyche/soul/life. When you do that, you also let go of the negative consequences of holding onto that hurt. Perhaps you have avoided people or certain situations so you never had to possibly feel that hurt you avoided for so long. Now you don’t have to avoid those people or situations.
We humans are wired to avoid pain, and seek pleasure. Often, the thing we want to change, get rid of or avoid is something that feels terrible to us. In addition, we usually fear that it will feel worse or become worse if we try to deal with it.
The unspoken secret to change or get rid of something (such as emotional hurts, issues, feelings, negative experiences, or unwanted beliefs) is that we must ACCEPT the very thing we want to change or get rid of.
What We Want Most REQUIRES Acceptance
Furthermore, the very things we want the most — being fully alive, feeling good, loving and being loved, having health and wellness, enjoying abundance and financial success, creating and enjoying a great life require us to run towards exactly what we don’t want – pain, hurt, wounds, negative experiences, issues, and fear.
The path of ACCEPTANCE is to run towards what we fear — our pain, our hurts, our wounds. The faster you run towards, the faster you change.
Examples of a PARADOX
Perhaps you believe you are a bad person/lover/spouse/employee. If you want to change that, you must first run towards truly feeling all the ways you believe you are a bad person/lover/spouse/employee. Then your work is to claim your deepest personal truth of all the ways you are a bad person/ lover/ spouse/ employee. Only then can you actually change your beliefs — and your reality.
It is difficult to change if everyone around you tells you the opposite of what you believe! If you believe deep down you are ugly and everyone around you says you are pretty, that does NOT help! Those people only deny your belief (that you are ugly), and add to your resistance.
If you come to me and say, “I believe I am ugly”, then I will agree with you and ask you to tell me all the ways you believe you are ugly. I will help you feel all the emotions that go along with believing you are ugly.
Then can you accept that you believe you are ugly, and ONLY THEN are you free to either take action, or not care anymore. And all of the energy you had been putting into avoiding the fact you believed you were ugly, can be put into something else.
ONLY until you no longer resist your belief that you are ugly can you move on with your life without wasting so much time and energy and probably money in avoiding your “ugliness”!
The “Cure” Of Paradox Cure
The “CURE” of The Paradox Cure
The “CURE” of The Paradox Cure is that running towards what you fear and avoid terminates many psychological conditions you resist along with the pain, contraction, and dis-ease in your body that emanated from the condition you resisted.
However, it can take time for the body to come back into wholeness and health from the dis-ease, and you may need to continue with medical support if that is what you have been helping yourself with. Only healthcare practitioners can have that conversation with you, of whether or not to change any of the medical support.
I am NOT a medical healthcare practitioner, but I do recommend you have that conversation with healthcare practitioners if you have made a shift using the principles of Paradox Cure. Also, perhaps get follow up testing to uncover any physiological changes your body may have undergone with a significant shift.
Remember, it can take time for the body to come back into wholeness and health after years of dis-ease. And sometimes we absolutely need medical support as an intervention on our path back to wholeness.
The Paradox Cure often restores many facets of health, as you come into a greater acceptance of your essence, body, mind, and soul. Then the body can right itself, and in this way the Paradox Cure restores vitality.
Definitions of a CURE:
- The procedure or treatment that ends a disease or condition, such as a change in lifestyle, or even a philosophical mindset that helps end a person’s suffering
- Inherent in the idea of a cure is the permanent end to the specific instance of dis-ease
- Restoration to health
- A solution to a problem
Other Places Of Paradox Cure Examples/Info
Interviews & Articles
Interviews done by Talyaa Liera in 2011, I edited the answers to reflect the most up-to-date accuracy.
Other Aspects Of Paradox Cure
The Paradox Cure Is NOT Therapy
The Paradox Cure is NOT therapy, because therapy is about changing a behavioral pattern — a type of programming. In Paradox Cure we do not attempt to change behavior, but instead we connect with, amplify and experience what we want to avoid or get rid of!
I know this might seem crazy, but the more you try to change something, the more you strengthen it, keep in place and alive. This goes for anything you want to change or get rid of.
Force, dominance, or any other modern Western Civilization’s approach that to change something you have to control it, just causes RESISTANCE, and gives energy to what you resist.
Not Personal Growth
Paradox Cure is NOT a personal growth modality. Almost all personal growth modalities work through using some formula, system, or type of programming. Programming is a resistance in and of itself.
Instead, Paradox Cure aligns with our body. I educate and train people how to simply BE PRESENT with their bodies, psyches, and issues by connecting, amplifying and experiencing them.
The Paradox Cure is a simple approach — ACCEPT that which you resist. Run towards your pain. There is no programming (therapy) or trying to change the body in some way.
Paradox Cure Is Highly Effective, Because It Taps Into Wisdom Of Our Body
Instead of trying to direct and program our healing or growth, The Paradox Cure takes the middle man out of personal growth — us trying to control our own healing, as if we know better than our body knows.
When we let our body do the healing/growth work without controlling it, we heal, grow and transform so so much faster than when we can — 5x, 10x, 20 times faster. I have found that there are some traumas and woundings that just can’t be directed by us, so we never can heal them until we let go of control and allow our body to take charge. This can be scary — to be out of control, especially when we may feel so vulnerable and scared of getting more hurt.
Most modalities try to make/force/direct the body to do what a person wants, controlling the healing/growth process, but that is not what is innate to the body. This is why almost ALL healing, personal growth and transformational modalities that do not allow the body to run the show are much slower or even ineffective.
Does Not Take Years or Even Days To Transform, But This Is Not A Short Cut
It does NOT have to take years, months, weeks or even days to change quickly and permanently. When we tap into our body’s innate wisdom, we can swiftly move through whatever we are stuck in.
HOWEVER, this is not a short cut. This takes work — to stay in the discomfort, sometimes extreme discomfort, of the pain, trauma, wound or hurt that we have avoided fully facing and feeling for years or decades.
It Often Takes Weeks To Know How You’ve Changed, If You Even Notice
Many times you will not become aware of what you change about yourself, because the changes you make when you give up resistance, and simply accept are often immediate. What you changed becomes your new reality as if the old reality never existed, and was always your reality.
It often takes weeks to months to become aware of the consequences of your internal change. In fact, many don’t know of their changes until someone points out what changed.
For example, one of my clients did a Paradox Cure session and returned 2 weeks later. During our check-in they said nothing changed. I questioned them and uncovered to their surprise that they had not smoked pot for the entire 2 weeks, even though they had previously smoked almost every day for over 10 years. Again, they were shocked, but this is common.
Paradox Cure Principles Can Improve The Efficacy of Other Modalities
For a healthcare practitioner of growth, healing, transformation, or any type of change modality — once they understand and apply what The Paradox Cure teaches about resistance and acceptance, then that practitioner can improve the efficacy of their work.
A practitioner can get to the core of what is needed for their client/patient by directing them to accept what they resist, instead of programming more resistance. Unfortunately, most modalities often inherently contain resistance, because the modality is directing the body instead of giving full control over to the body.