The “PARADOX” of Paradox Cure — Run Towards What We Run From

The PARADOX of The Paradox Cure is that we must run towards and accept what we fear, avoid, and don’t want anymore!

This involves RUNNING TOWARDS what we have resisted, which inevitably means experiencing the hurt, pain or fear. I am not suggesting that you need to suffer; in fact, suffering is almost always a result of resisting and not accommodating the pain of something you are avoiding.

By accepting what we resist, by feeling, exploring, and moving through what we have avoided for so long, we can swiftly release that wound or hurt in our psyche, soul, or life. When we do this, we also release the negative consequences of holding onto that hurt. 

Perhaps you have avoided people or certain situations to prevent yourself from experiencing the pain you have avoided for so long. Now, you no longer have to avoid those people or situations.

Humans are wired to avoid pain and seek pleasure. Often, the things we want to change, eliminate, or avoid are things that feel terrible to us. Additionally, we usually fear that confronting them will make them feel worse or worsen.

The unspoken secret to change (such as changning emotional hurts, issues, feelings, negative experiences, or unwanted beliefs) is that we must ACCEPT the very thing we want to change or eliminate.

What We Want Most REQUIRES Acceptance

Furthermore, the very things we desire most — being fully alive, feeling good, loving and being loved, having health and wellness, enjoying abundance and financial success, creating and enjoying a fulfilling life — require us to run towards and feel exactly what we do not want — pain, hurt, wounds, negative experiences, issues, and fear itself.

The path to ACCEPTANCE lies in running towards our fears — our pain, our hurts, our wounds. The quicker we confront and accept these fears, the faster we undergo transformation and growth.

The “CURE” of Paradox Cure

The “CURE” of The Paradox Cure lies in running towards what we have been running away from . This approach effectively eliminates many psychological conditions we resist, along with the pain, contraction, and dis-ease in our body that resulted from the whatever we resisted.

However, it may take time for our body to fully recover and regain its wholeness and health from the dis-ease.

If you have been relying on medical support to manage your condition, you may need to continue with it. Only healthcare practitioners can have an informed discussion with you about whether to modify your medical treatment.

I am not a medical healthcare practitioner, and I strongly recommend that you have a conversation with healthcare professionals if you have made a shift using Paradox Cure. Additionally, it might be beneficial to undergo follow-up testing to identify any physiological changes your body may have experienced due to a significant shift.  They do happen!

Remember, it can take time for our bodies to fully recover and regain its health after years of dis-ease. Sometimes we absolutely need medical support as an intervention on our journey back to wholeness.

The Paradox Cure often restores various aspects of health as we come into a greater acceptance of our essence, body, mind, and soul. This newfound acceptance allows our body to heal itself, and in this way, the use of Paradox Cure restores vitality.

Paradox Cure Is NOT Therapy

The Paradox Cure is NOT therapy because therapy focuses on altering a behavioral pattern — a type of programming.   In Paradox Cure we do not attempt to change behavior, but instead we connect with, amplify, and experience the very things we want to avoid or eliminate.

I understand this may seem illogical or even absurd, but the more we attempt to change something, the more we reinforce it, maintain its presence, and sustain its existence. This principle applies to any aspect we wish to change or eliminate.

Force, dominance, or any other approach prevalent in modern Western Civilization that suggests controlling something is the key to change only generates resistance, and inadvertently fuels the very thing we resist.

Not Personal Growth

Paradox Cure is NOT a personal growth modality.  Most personal growth modalities rely on some type of programming.  Almost all programming itself is a resistance.

Instead, Paradox Cure aligns with the innate wisdom of our bodies. I educate and train people to simply BE PRESENT with their bodies, minds, psyches, and issues by connecting, amplifying, and experiencing them.

The Paradox Cure is a simple approach — ACCEPT what you resist. Run towards your pain, fear, wounds and hurts. There is not any type of programming or attempting to change the body in any way!

Paradox Cure Is Highly Effective, Because It Taps Into The Innate Wisdom Of Our Body

Instead of attempting to direct and program our healing or growth, The Paradox Cure takes the middle man out of personal growth — our attempts to control our healing, as if we know better than our body knows.

When we relinquish control and allow our bodies to perform the healing and growth work, we experience accelerated healing, growth, and transformation. This process can be 3x, 10x, or even 20 times faster than when we actively control it. I have discovered that most traumas and wounds are well beyond our control, so we can only heal them by letting go of control and instead allow our bodies to take the lead. This can be scary, especially when we feel vulnerable and fear getting hurt more.

Most modalities attempt to compel or direct the body to perform actions that align with a person’s desires, thereby controlling the healing and growth process. However, this approach contradicts the body’s innate nature. Consequently, almost all healing, personal growth, and transformational modalities that disregard the body’s autonomy are significantly slower or ineffective.

Does Not Necessarily Take Years or Even Days To Change, But It Takes Commitment

It does NOT necessarily take years, months, weeks, or even days to undergo a rapid and permanent transformation. By tapping into our body’s innate wisdom, we can swiftly navigate through anything we are stuck in.

However, it’s important to note that this is not a shortcut. It requires effort and commitment to confront and fully experience the discomfort, sometimes extreme discomfort, of the pain, trauma, fear, wound, or hurt that we have avoided for years, decades, or our entire lives.

It Often Takes Weeks To Know How You’ve Changed, If You Even Notice

Many times, you will not realize what you have changed something about yourself, because the changes you make when you give up resistance and simply accept are often immediate. What you have changed instantly becomes your new reality, as if the old reality never existed and the new reality has always been your reality.

Therefore, it often takes weeks to months to become aware of the consequences of your internal change. In fact, some people will never know about their changes unless someone points them out.

For instance, one of my clients did a Paradox Cure session and returned two weeks later. During our check-in, they said nothing had changed. I questioned them and, to their surprise, they realized something huge had indeed changed — that they had not smoked pot for the entire two weeks, even though they had previously smoked almost every day for over a decade. This is a common phenomena with Paradox Cure.