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Why Are You Really Here? What Are You Looking For?
Consider these questions, better because you can get higher quality answers:
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- What do you truly want?
- How do you know that you truly want that?
- How will you know when you get that?
- How are you even making choices?
Few ask these questions, and fewer still answer them. Yet getting those answers lead to not just higher quality answers, but higher quality: jobs and careers; relationships; health; success; communications; choices; enjoyment; connection; spiritual/religious meaning; and a power to shape our communities for the better.
Even better questions could follow, but that is a rabbit hole — more like a wormhole — and is getting ahead of myself and YOU.
A Deeper Cut of Why You Came Here (or anywhere) …
What am I talking about? Let’s start with why you came here. These are probably great questions to consider when you want something from any website, course or person:
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- How do you know who to listen to? Read? Learn from? Ask for guidance?
- How will you know when someone speaks to your truth? Your Heart and Soul?
- How will you know when you stumble upon a path that might be right for you NOW?
I cannot answer these questions for you, and I won’t pretend that I could (though many do). I don’t think it works when anyone else answers those questions for you! When someone else answers these personal questions for you, you only end up with more negative consequences that outweigh any of potential positive consequences.
I am here for two pretty big reasons. And what are those reasons?! Thank you for asking! I am sure you would have looked for this sooner than later. Right?
Why I Am Here — My Role
I am here to remind you how wondrous life can be!
Some WHERE, some TIME, some HOW, some WHY, you knew this!
Even if it was but a glimpse, a glimmer or shimmer.
Or have you forgotten or lost your way?
And to remind you who you are!
How far away are you from feeling the power, wonder and awe of life?
That glimpse, glimmer and shimmer is your MAGNIFICENCE — who you ARE!
My work lives within this context, and is intended to enrich your life beyond your current BEYOND — what you even imagine your life could be. And my work educates you how to learn better from others. How? Some of WHY work (questions, experiential exercises, experiments) give you access to:
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- Your inner compass
- Your deeper truths
- Ability to make way better life choices
- An uncanny skill to assess the truth for YOU of what anyone claims might be your truth
OK. Stick with me here, because it gets really good. What if I am about to make more sense than oh, so so many other approaches, information, books, videos …? Imagine that ….
What Most Personal Growth Paths Really Do
Most personal growth paths actually add greater RESISTANCE to us remembering and accessing our magnificent essence. They get in the way of us knowing, living and expressing who we truly are.
Our educational systems, governments, most religions, money systems, and those with a lot of money/power all have a vested interest in our continued resistance to our essence, to our inner knowing where we can easily discern what is aligned with us. We are taught at a subconscious level many ways to resist.
Think of Madison Avenue with all of its slick marketing telling us: how much our bodies smell so we believe we need such and such product; or how bad it is that our bodies age, so we believe we need to buy such and such; or that we need such and such, because we are not cool looking enough, not rich enough, not attractive enough, not fashionable enough, not fit enough, not skinny enough, not strong enough, not smart enough.
I am NOT talking of some conspiracy. I am pointing out that Western and modern civilizations have evolved (I call it de-evolved) to keep power and economic systems in place, even though humanity on the whole experiences huge negative consequences. Climate change is just one among many worsening consequences.
Imagine educating and training individuals how to accept their inner authority, inner power, and inner knowing? This is what do. I educate and train individuals and organizations to accept deeper truths of who they are, which melts away resistance in the process.
Living In Acceptance Gets The Goodies In Life
When we live in acceptance, the opposite of what we are mostly taught (resistance), we experience the goodies in life:
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- emotional and physical intimacy
- connection
- love
- pleasure
- meaning
- self actualizing
- making a difference the way you want
- being rich with personal freedom
In acceptance, you live and express with your inner authority, personal power, so much more. What awaits you in acceptance is vast, and is within the hidden realm of knowledge — what you don’t know that you don’t know.
So What Now? Next Steps …
Before I meet a client for the first time, I ask them to answer 4 questions. I call this The Magnificent Life Choice Assessment™.
I love naming processes by the way, as it makes my work more fun, naming things gives more power to the process, and the names help me to refer to the dozens of processes I have created, and keep them organized.
I learned through the years that these 4 questions start a process to get at what it is a person truly wants. Consider that there is a chasm between what you think you want, and what you TRULY WANT AND NEED.
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- What works in your life?
- What does not work in your life?
- What do you want to change?
- What in your past has supported you to make big changes?